If the years were different

I am completely beyond being unhappy with the situation with my mother, and we ended up fighting on the phone tonight while I was at work. We do not get along on a regular basis and I have spent so much time trying to distance myself from her, mainly because she hurts me all of the time. I found out my surgery date about a week or two ago and I wanted to be able to see my family and I called her and let her know what was going on. I have told her what was going on with the tumor that is in my brain since October. She didn't really listen to me and she ended up calling me overweight a couple of times when I first told her what was going on with me.